"Life is a funny thing. We only get so many years to live it, so we have to do everything we can to make sure those years are as full as they can be. We shouldn't waste time on things that might happen someday, or maybe even never."

She’s basically saying: we’re on a clock, even if we pretend we’re not. We don’t get an unlimited number of years, so it’s worth asking, “What am I actually doing with the ones I have?” A lot of us spend so much time worrying about what might happen someday – the worst-case scenarios, the what ifs, the imaginary disasters; that we forget to live what’s actually in front of us. Think of all the times you’ve delayed joy: not taking the trip, not saying how you feel, not starting the thing you secretly care about, because you’re waiting for the “right time.” Hoover’s reminder is gentle but firm: your real life is happening now, not in some perfect, risk-free future that may never come.